As a boy my interests were in sports, music and movies. I had this rotating dream of being like Dan Fouts of the San Diego Chargers, Chris Cornell of Soundgarden and Harrison Ford from the Indiana Jones films. How wonderful to be as wealthy and famous as these guys! But did I ever play football? Very little. What about learning the guitar and taking voice lessons? Of course not. As for acting? I never enrolled in a single drama class. These weren’t real goals of mine, they were whims. Like most people I just dreamt of being great.
Consequently, I spent all of my childhood and most of my adult years thinking that success came naturally to people. These gifted individuals didn’t have to earn their success or have someone show them how to get it. A cosmic force had granted them special talents that I didn’t deserve. I was left to toil away in mediocrity with the rest of the common folk.
But that all changed in 1994 while working as a photojournalist for KMGH in Denver, Colorado. For the first time in my professional life I set a goal. It was to become the National Press Photographer Association Regional Photographer of the Year. I’m not exactly sure what prompted me to set this goal, but I was determined to reach it. I started spending hours at the TV station before and after my shift watching other photojournalists’ reels. I immersed myself in the craft. I convinced some of the best in the business to mentor me, guys like Dan Dwyer, Roel Robles, Tim Jensen, Gilbert Zermeno and Erik Lee. Within one year I had my trophy.
As I reflect on this accomplishment and the many others I’ve had since then, I can’t help but wonder why it took me so long to discover that success is not pre-ordained and certainly not a do-it-yourself proposition? History is ripe with stories of great men and women who attribute their success to a mentor, or series of mentors. They didn’t do it on their own; they had a lot of guidance.
Benjamin Graham mentored one of wealthiest investors of all time. Born in 1894, Graham lived through and actually prospered following the Great Depression. His book, The Intelligent Investor, was published in 1949 and inspired a generation of value investors. Mr. Graham’s most successful protégé was so inspired by the book that he moved to New York from his modest, Midwestern hometown at the age of 20 to attend Columbia University. Graham taught classes there at the time, in addition to managing his very successful investment firm, the Graham-Newman Corporation.
Graham’s star pupil was named Warren Buffett. Buffett would later write in a revised edition of the Intelligent Investor, “I knew Ben as my teacher, my employer, and my friend. In each was an absolutely open-ended, no-scores kept generosity of ideas, time and spirit. If clarity of thinking was required, there was no better place to go. And if encouragement or counsel was needed, Ben was there.”
So there you have it. If arguably the most successful business owner and investor of all time had a mentor then shouldn’t you and I? The truth is we are all born unsuccessful. As Earl Nightingale points out in The Strangest Secret, “success is the progressive realization of a worthy goal or ideal.” We don’t become successful until we set out on the journey to make our goal a reality. For me it was to win an award, for Warren Buffett it was to become a millionaire by age 35.
The journey can be very cold and lonely without help. So set your goal and then immediately begin to surround yourself with people who can help you achieve it.


Fresh out of my very first real estate investment seminar in 2001 I went directly into the local print shop and had 50 ‘We Buy Houses’ signs made up. Al Lowery, the instructor, promised that these signs would generate hundreds of calls from desperate, motivated homeowners. Early one morning I put every one of these signs in the ground at some of the busiest intersections in the city. Because I’m a good student I also had a ‘We Buy Houses’ sticker put on the back of my SUV and placed a ‘We Buy Houses’ ad in the local newspaper. I learned in this seminar that with my “sophisticated” marketing campaign in motion all I would need to do was sit back and wait for the calls to pour in.
Much later on I learned that the secret with the bandit signs is to put them up after 5p on Friday and take them down before 8a on Monday morning. This is because the code compliance officers don’t work on weekends. The real estate gurus instruct aspiring real estate investors to put these signs out because they can be very effective. I would argue that selling drugs or robbing banks can be effective too, but it’s not legal and certainly not something to be proud of. Do you really want to promote your business next to the guy hocking carpet cleaning, bankruptcies for $200, affordable health insurance, personal training, yoga, diet supplements or dog grooming?
“They say money talks. All mine ever says is goodbye.” – Red Skelton
I worked in TV news for 15 years before I got into real estate. I was commonly referred to as the “cameraman”, but I liked the title “photojournalist” much better. Because I was behind the scenes the dress code wasn’t nearly as strict as it was for the on-air “talent”. Many of my colleagues chose to dress down every day, probably because it was cooler and certainly more comfortable.
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Last week I played doctor. This week it’s forensic pathologist. Admittedly, I’m not very good at either one. I let a real estate deal flat line and the cause of death remains unclear. Fortunately, there is a lot that can be learned when you dissect a paper corpse. The writers of CSI could have never dreamed up an episode this good. Come to think of it this story is actually more like a dark comedy than a murder mystery.
Suddenly the bad guys don’t seem so bad. My client and I conclude the lender hired a competent, local appraiser that applied some common sense to the process. He carefully reviewed the subject property and three other comparable homes using similar criteria but the appraisal came in a little low. It happens. Of course my client is disappointed about it but the margins on this deal are still very good. So is it time for the nice family to ride off into the sunset? Not so fast. Enter the next evil doer, Mr. Desk Review Appraisal. This is starting to feel like a Batman and Robin movie…too many villains. And Mr. Desk Review Appraisal plays the part of the Joker. Here are a few lines from the script, I mean the review appraisal:
“Little else is requisite to carry a state to the highest degree of opulence from the lowest barbarism but peace, easy taxes, and a tolerable administration of justice: all the rest being brought about by the natural course of things,” Adam Smith, author of ‘Wealth of Nations’, 1776
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Why does the FHA have this requirement? Obviously, because it prevents flipping! Believe it or not there are a few bad apples out there that have manipulated values and artificially driven up prices in certain areas. Rather than dealing with the bad guys it was easier for the FHA to create a policy that today not only harms the buyer and seller, it also severely hinders a real estate recovery. I believe these are called ‘unintended consequences’. It would be nice if the FHA recognized that while there have been times when investors were poison to the real estate market, at this critical point in time they are the anecdote.
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So what needs to change? For starters, apple to apple comparisons for terms of sale must be made. If the appraiser can’t do an apple to apple comparison allow them to go further out. Next, factor in days on market (more value should be added to the property if it goes under contract quickly, and conversely value should be deducted if the home sits for months on end.) Additionally, consideration must be given to how many offers are received on the subject property. Finally, the HVCC must be eliminated (see Inman News story from yesterday,